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Sunday, September 21, 2008

thanks alot for that.

yes you are right to complain to mom and dad, and of cos they'll definitely feel that im in the wrong position to go against you because you are the one who tell them your whole side of story, with me recieving reprimand from them.

yes, i started yelling crazily at you first. but before blowing out, did i say it nicely to you, asking you a favour to do either laundry or dish washing, for umpteen times??? yes i did. did i demand you to do both or everything??? no i didnt. you simply just ignored me and continue packing your own stuffs just because you are heading out soon. have you thought it through, that if at that instant you "promise that you'll help whenever you can", would i even come roaring at you the the doorsteps? instead of that, you just hannah hannah, threw a statement and left.

yes, im not noble enough to do literally everything at home. sweeping and mopping is a weekly chore and we usually split these during weekends. so obviously im referring to washing dishes and laundry which are needed to be done almost everyday. did i refuse to do these two before our quarrel? no. of cos there's something im unhappy about which had caused it.

before you're back home from school, i DID do laundry, wash dishes after mom cooks dinner. when you return, three of us had our dinner and ALL the plates and wok are being stacked at the basin. i have to wash them all, with you claiming that you're tired. usually we'll divide again, but dont know why we just left it there.

however, is your own plate and spoon very difficult to wash up? why do i want to be so particular about it? cos a simple action shows something. you dont wanna wash your own stuff, and dont wanna wash everything else, in this case seems to be pushing the whole washing chore to me. this is not a hawker centre, people cook, you eat, people wash dishes. did you ever talk to me, saying that 'im are tired lei, can help me wash up?" in a nice manner? NO. and to me, that again implies that helping you to wash things up is something that im expected to do, which i dont think so. you see the picture now?

talking about laundry, i actually dont mind doing it everyday cause erm i like to do laundry? but the thing here is, again about your attitude.

why didnt i ask mom to do the chores as well? because sad to say, she's the one who ask me or us to do them all. and she hardly have time cos most of the time when she returns from work, she's sleeping.

reguarding getting allowance during holiday, you think that it means im reguarded as a family member and thus i should do the chores. SURE, when did i say i dont wanna do EVERYTHING? all these while, my point is just about me doing chores during holiday, and hoping that you could help for a least bit if you can.

now it seems like you've treated it as i dont wanna do chore AT ALL, just wanna slack all day and still able to get allowance like nobody's business. you kept using this allowance thing to reprimand me being over pampered, to me, it just sounded like im a maid hired for 70$ per week. for the sake of money i should do chores, and if i dont i shouldnt get any pay. do you think i'll be overjoy after hearing this?

and after the fight, i then realized that you've even told(i see it as complain) mom and dad about it. the issue here isnt about im angry because you complain to them, in turn getting me into trouble, told off by them. but, isnt the entire issue between both of us? to me it's like: initially it started as a trival matter, which i think you did contribute to it as well. then why are you still complain to our parents like a kid, waiting to see me being scolded by them?

definitely i can understand that no one utters good stuffs when you're angry, and some times you dont mean what you say. but not only me, you should also reflect on it. during quarrels, be it with me, or with meow, you always appear to be so strong headed? got such term? okay, or stubborn. how people treat you, you'll return it back with impact 3 times greater. you think that being this way is fair, but no point ma.

right?